This year, we did Memorial Day differently than we usually do. Some years, we visit the cemetery with our family and see the graves of my sister and grandparents. Other years we haven't gone at all. I kept thinking about what we would do for the holiday this year, and I had an idea come to mind. I didn't know if it was a weird idea or not. I told Matt about it, and he said we should go for it.
I wanted a way for my kids to learn about those who have passed on before them, and also to remember the loved ones that they have had the chance to meet. My idea was to use paper and write memories about the people we were going to see. McKay has met all of his great-grandparents, but some he doesn't remember. Brynlee has met all but two great-grandparents. We talked about the people we were about to go see, sharing memories about who they were and what they liked to do, and then we all wrote notes to those people in Heaven. It was the best Memorial Day activity we've ever done.
All four of my grandparents have passed away. Matt has a grandma who has passed, and my older sister has as well. I miss my grandparents and Matt's grandma. These people shaped me by their example, genetics, life, and love. I see my grandma's in me with my music abilities, sewing, and art. I feel connected to them when I express myself in these talents and hobbies I've developed.
I miss both my grandpa's humor, kindness, stories, and generosity. I miss them both dearly. I look forward to a day when I get to greet them again. I most look forward to the day I get to meet my sister again. I never lived on Earth with her, but I am excited to get to know her and have another sister to love.
I am grateful to know that the people I love still live. They are happy, and someday I will get to see them again. It was sure nice to remember them. I look forward to doing it again next year.
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